Sunday, 7 January 2024

Over Sharing Habits

Over sharing things is not healthy at all. You trust them blindly and over-share stuff like something related to your personal life, something related to your professional life, and many more things. In the end, you get some “gyan” from them, or they criticize you for your situation. There are lots of incidents that happened to me because I shared too much with some people. After all, I consider them as my people, but in the end, I was disappointed. In this era, no one is as real as your parents. Always remember this. People pretend that they are good to you and care about you, but they don’t. I am not saying all are the same, but making boundaries is much more vital if you want to be happy. Make own decisions na, why you are searching for help from outside? No one fucking damn care what you are facing and going through. So stop telling people about everything related to your life. Some secrets have meant to be secrets so make it secret. Going out and chilling with friends is totally ok, but “Bhawna o mein itna bhi mat beh jao ki battein over share kardo.” It is your life, your choices, and your decisions. Then why involve others to control you. Are you that bad who never handles your own struggles? nah…..

They Changed Too Late, But Not in Vain

Some people did things to me that were deeply wrong. At that time, they didn’t realize the weight of their actions, or maybe they did and ch...