Suffering

People are already suffering from their own battles, which you never imagine. All have their own problems to deal with. Some choose to solve silently. On the other side, some are seeking help to solve it. That’s not a weakness of other people, but they cannot do it their own way. That’s why they need help. But it is a human tendency who choose to seek help. People tag them as weaker or always treat them as “bichara.” And some of your close friends tell you that you just want entertainment, that’s why you have done all of this. Are you serious? I experienced those things, so I decided to fight my battles in my own way and not tell people what was bothering me. They listen and give some “gyan”, that’s it. But if they put themselves in our shoes, they will know how it feels. But it is OK if they make fun of our problems. It’s their choice. So why do you give them a reason to make fun of you and crack the joke? Deal with its own na. I know sometimes it’s not easy to deal with it own. At that time, you need some person to listen to you, so its okay if you can heart out with someone close to you, but make sure that listener is more capable or trustworthy and can give their shoulder to you rather than give you some “muftka ka gyan.” But trust me, in the suffering stage, you know about your real people. You know whom for you matter the most.

                                                                      - Moni🥀