Stalking

Yeah stalking someone’s life and interfering in it is the worst thing you do. Yeah I have done this, but after that, I regret this. Because I wasted so much time on it, I Stalked too, and just for his/her social media appearance, I judged myself and compared myself. What pathetic behaviour of mine. How could it be I’m so stupid? When I think about those things, I regret about wasting my time. I chose to stalk some of them rather than focus on improving myself. One thing is clear: You can’t judge someone based on their physical appearance on social media and give them more importance than yourself. I’m not saying that his/her is not pretty. But you can't compare yourself to the era of smartphones and so many editing features. Be true to yourself. Focus on yourself. People are different in their own way. You should start loving yourself the way you are. People judge you and rate you in any way. Some judge you by your physical appearance, others side judge you by your nature, some judge you by how you talk, some judge you by how you walk, some judge you by your sense of humour, some judge you by your behaviour towards them and the judging pattern goes on. So stop comparing yourself to anyone. Just be yourself. If someone wants to stay in your life, they accept you the way you are, and if he/she wants to leave, he/she finds one reason to leave you. Liking by oneself is much more important than liking by others. If you can’t love or like yourself, how do you expect someone to like or love you? I know sometimes we are all in that one phase where we make mistakes, which is fine. That’s just a phase of life, not your whole life. So stop stalking someone and focus on your life. Time is very precious, so don’t waste it on this thing.

 

                                                                   - Moni 🥀